My friends and I continuously have a conversation about the guys we keep around or need to find and have narrowed the list down to these guys who either have skills or resources. Being single does not mean you don’t entertain the idea of men being around; to me it means the men that are around serve a purpose. I guess the trick with this is which one are you going to sleep with, if any? I think that every single woman needs 3 men in her life that she can call on when needed a these are the guys you try not piss off because they can be hard to come by.
A Mechanic: If you have an older car this guy will always come in handy and if you have a newer car he will show you how to maintain it. A Mechanic is a must have to the rooster if you don’t know much about cars. This man will save you money in the long run by either doing repairs or not letting you get taken advantage of at a repair shop. If you don’t know a mechanic meet or find someone who does and get to know the mechanic. The trick with this relationship is that you should always pay him for his services if he does a repair and be very, very nice to him. You don’t want to piss off the mechanic, because cars are unpredictable and always break down at inopportune times. However if your dad or a family member is handy you may not need him.Sleep with him? NO, you can’t mess this up with sex. Mechanics are like polar bears these days; hard to find. Besides you will probably wonder if his hands are clean..
A Tech Guy: Initially I thought a computer guy but I’m technology incompetent at times, so while I know the basics about computers, I know absolutely nothing about TVs, ipads, tablets, cameras or anything else that needs to be charged. I only use my phone for the basic functions. A tech guy comes in handy when your computer dies or tries to, when you want to buy a TV and hook it up, when you have questions or just to watch TV, because his TV and surround sound will be better than yours.Sleep with him? Maybe. These guys are becoming more common if they don’t have an extensive knowledge of techy things they may know enough to be useful but not enough to be irreplaceable.
A Wallet: This guy is who people would consider your bottom. You may have been serious with him for a while but things didn’t work out but so when you need anything you can call him. He is the guy with extra money who supports you when you need it. I am not saying that you use him unnecessarily but he is a valuable resource so don’t abuse it. This is the guy you have to keep happy while maintaining your freedom and depending on the man it’s a balancing act because you have history so feelings are involved at times.Sleep with him? You already have… If it doesn’t complicate things more, carry on. However you have to be mindful that more sex can make it messier than it probably already is. You need to keep him happy because he will be the one paying the mechanic and he may also serve as your tech guy.