I have tendency to not be upset, I typically just move on to the next without questions or very much thought… Call it my flaw of indifference. Typically I’m indifferent the early stages of things, I think that we should all be a little indifferent because everyone you meet is not going to like you. It is interesting that people get so wrapped so fast. Typically I always have one foot out the door and a couple of players warmed up, just in case.
The way I know that I really like a guy is when I care about how he feels and I’m upset or disappointed by something he does or doesn’t do. In that moment I think to myself “Damn it he’s got me”. There is one person in particular that I try my damnedest to be great for. Not because I’m not great anyway, but he brings out the best in me. He makes me want to be everything I never thought I wanted to be. So one time when he didn’t call me back, like he said he would, I was upset and then I knew I gave a more than a few fucks because I actually ran through all of the things he could be doing besides talking to me. In reality he was asleep and I was wondering what he was doing but of course I didn’t call (I didn’t want to seem too pressed). Under a normal circumstance I would have forgot he was supposed to call back or not thought twice about it.
In short, I try to only waste energy on people I like I don’t over analyze or agonize over the ones around for entertainment and company. I like doing random things and I need people around who want to do it with me. You have to decide when to care. With careful control over your impulsive emotions you too can seem not only heartless but can become indifferent too. I know someone is reading this like what good is a chick who doesn’t get upset. People think that women need to have emotions so men can have reactions. So to you I say the fact that I’m single says a lot about how I treat these hoes… Not saying that I haven’t been in a meaningful fulfilling relationship. I just try to put potential relationship energy into people who I could potentially be in a relationship with. So please be careful because being upset directly correlates to giving a fuck.