I had a crush on this guy for a lot of college and when he finally pays me attention as more than a friend I was so hung up on my ex at the time that I didn’t even notice, well I noticed but I didn’t care. A year or so later, after we had an awesome night at club and made some hilarious memories, he confronted about it and we are still friends. Looking back I think I did the right thing for me at the time. I was looking for an outlet and he provided one at the perfect time.
Knowing all that I know about him now I am happy that things worked out the way they did, he is an amazing friend. I’m not sure I could see him in any other capacity than that. In college we had some crazy club nights and it was fun. He was a friend when I needed one and proved that everything doesn’t turn out how you plan it. When I met him swore we would be married by now, lol. I can’t believe I ever thought that. I do think he was placed in my life to be there that night, if nothing else. He was my ultimate crush turned, even better friend.