Emotions are tricky and women get so caught up in them... Record scratches silent stare given. Excuse me, people get caught in them. Usually thinking with our hearts gets us in a lot of trouble and when you add the new person scent it gets even more complex because it’s a mix between nostalgia, lust and blind trust. In the beginning stages of meeting people we automatically trust them because what reasons would we have not to?? We are not invested and they have not given us any reasons not to. But there is always a point when you have to decide if you want to be rational or emotional.
The initial connection you have with some people can be blinding. You feel as though you have never met anyone like this person and it’s always true because no two people are the same. But it’s when we decide to ride the wave of infatuation and nostalgia that we get hurt. Some of us ride this wave for years because the person never really lets us in; only giving us glimpses of what things would be like with them. Through these glimpses we create an image of what it would be like full time with them. Even thinking deep down inside that they might be the one. Please, Please, Please Wake Up!!!!!! Those are emotions talking. The fact is, who you think they are and who they truly are, are two completely different people. You might be better off having an imaginary relationship with who you want them to be, rather than finding out who they really are.
There are times when you want to tell someone everything you have ever felt about them and those my dear are emotions. a rational mind would tell you that pouring your heart out to someone who hasn’t opened theirs to you is a very big mistake, so get a grip. The bottom line is if you have been talking to and dating someone off and on for years, then I would think they weren’t intereted in you in that way; you simply provide an optional convenience. Don’t be an optional convenience. Don’t think with you heart or your pants think with your head.