Every relationship is not supposed to last forever, actually most relationships won’t last forever. People perpetually try to make it work. If you have to make it work, then it is clearly not working. I find it crazy that people, especially women, put themselves in these situations where they want to wait around on a person to become who they want them to be. FYI ladies they should already be that. I like for people to be who they are, if we grow together it is a beautiful thing and if we grow apart, it’s on to the next. I know people who feel like they invest time in men to only have things fall apart every time. To them I say don’t hold onto one man so tight, unless of course you’re married. I would also say it fell apart for reason everyone isn’t going to be the one. Chase your dreams not a man, and eventually you will find the one for you.
Break ups hurt, but sometimes relationships are a part of the stepping-stones to the rest of your life. Why would you want to stunt your growth waiting for someone or something to happen? We all have to grow at our own pace and we can’t fight it by staying in the same situations. We do this because we are always afraid to leave the ONE, but what I know about the ONE is deep down we know when a person is not it. The problem is we are so jaded by the fact that a lot things don’t work out, that we try to make them, and when it falls through it hurts. In the end you have to be open to get hurt and open to Love again. Remember that Love is one of the most amazing feelings and it is OK to try again. But in the mean time enjoy being you, love yourself more for once and take this opportunity to Let Go, Move on and Grow up.