Sex with no emotions or strings attached. Many find it hard to believe that women and sometimes men can engage sexually without emotions attachment. I believe that the emotional attachment is optional. Some may think of this as friends with benefits, I think that depends on how you define friends.
This arrangement is only between me and you. I like to be discreet and I will not sleep with your friends, relatives, co workers or anyone else you are affiliated with. The reasoning behind this I am picky, I choose my own people, I will not take suggestions from you nor will I be passed around groups of friends. I have a lot of respect for myself, there are certain circumstances where that comes into question and I like to stay away from those.
Whenever is mutually convenient.
- Ok I am first of all not your girlfriend so therefore do not approach me with your emotional baggage. Your emotional needs are not my responsibility. I can make you feel needed but I will not make you feel like you can depend on me. This relationship may inevitably turn into a friendship but I am not looking for it.
- Chivalry is not dead. I do not deal in assholes and will not tolerate being mistreated or disrespected. I am a woman and I expect to be treated as such. Treat me with the same amount of respect that you would expect someone to treat your sister.
- I am discreet and I expect you to be. I am simply sexually open but that does not mean open to anyone.
- I will not do anything because I was pressured. The nature of the relationship is based on mutual respect. I only do things I am comfortable doing; I have no problem saying no.
- I will not do this if you come off as sexually selfish; you have you give as much as you take. By this I mean I am not there to please you, I am there to be pleased as well.