One question or subject matter if I were asked here on 30 Days of Blogging Honesty I know I would refuse to answer or definitely lie about is…
I signed up to be honest so that’s what I would try to do no matter what the topic is. However I guess I wouldn’t know until I was presented with a question that I was totally uncomfortable with.
My television is showing the same show on every channel. I really don’t mind watching ____________ (from the 1960′s) and I really love this show because…
Bewitched. I Love this show I identify with Samantha being an outsider trying to navigate this life she’s chosen to live, with the man she Loves, despite her mother’s disdain. I can watch reruns of this all day. I feel like it captures something about suburbia even now, how cookie cutter like is expected to become. Bewitched also took stands against social injustice, during it’s run which is impressive on a show with very few characters of color. In one episode Samantha and her husband were portrayed in an ad negatively because she was a witch, which in reality addresses topics including race and miscegenation. Race also came up when one character painted polka dots on herself and her black friend so that they would be treated equally.
If I could do one thing that is socially unacceptable and know I would not be judged, I would…
I don’t really know I never consider social acceptability when doing things so, I don’t really have an answer.
I have an inner voice, and if a friend spoke to me the way my inner voice does at times, I would…
Ignore them like I ignore my inner voice on very regular occasions. I really need to stop doing that because because for the most part my inner voice is always right. The inner voice is a very strong force and I really need to give it more credit. The last time I didn’t listen to it, I didn’t lock my car doors because it was too cold to turn around and later that night my car was stolen.
I would break the law to save a loved one if…
Been there done that, luckily I didn’t get caught. I hold the people I Love in very high esteem so if it must be done…
Laws were made to be broken especially if they result in misdemeanors.
My biggest pet peeve that has nothing to do with blogging, being online, computers or anything else related to the Internet is…
When people don’t use common sense. I hate having to over explain things or for someone to not connect the obvious dots. Common sense is something not all of us have and I have to be more understanding of these people. Common sense apparently is not a common thing,
When people who are familiar to my apartment ask me where things are located before they took the time to look. He is guilty of this and he knows who he is. Such as “Have you seen the ketchup?” …I guess because it’s not in plain sight in the refrigerator it’s missing? Hmm maybe I’m missing something. Then he says “You had it last”… I sure did but after I was done I put it back, oh wait look it’s behind the orange juice. Just take the time to look for things.
Given the choice between having to live the rest of my life without my voice, or living the rest of my life without the ability to hear, I would choose…
Without my voice. I am a writer it comes second nature so I have a medium to communicate. Even if that means I need to learn to write or type as fast as I talk because I plan on having a device that speaks for me in Morgan Freeman’s voice; it would be cool to have him narrate my life. Without my hearing I feel like I would miss out on some of the great things in life like music, and hearing the voices of the people I Love. So I am going to choose no voice because actually if you can’t hear, your voice doesn’t sound that great.
Having another person to fully love me means I must…
Be completely honest. I don’t want a person to love part of me, I want them to love all of me. I have to be honest with them about everything. Even this blog, lol. I want the person to know everything about me and while some may think this a big mistake I don’t feel that way. As I said in the previous post I don’t feel loved unless I feel truly accepted, so in order to feel that, I have be honest. It also means that I have to be patient. In order for someone to truly know me and accept me I have to learn to be patient during that process.
Allowing another person to fully love me means they must…
I think it should read “having” instead of “allowing”. They have to allow me to be me and accept me as I am. I don’t think there is any better way to feel loved by someone than for them to love you for who you are on all levels. If I feel truly accepted for all the things that make up who I am, that is when I feel the most loved. They don’t have to understand everything about me but they have to accept me; for all that I am and what I am not.
Accepting someone doesn’t mean that they will never change, it just means that you are willing to allow them to grow at their own pace. Life is not stagnant and it doesn’t allow us to be. There is always change going on; within and around us. Love should be accepting of growth and change but also meeting someone where they are.
The person or persons that do not read my blog but I wish he/she/they would is…
No one. I hope this blog finds people who need to read what I write. I started this blog on a whim because I was bored an needed and outlet. Well it has turned into a whole different thing and I just hope that the right post find the right person at the right time. Sometimes the answers we seek don’t come from people who know us or people who we are closest to, sometimes these answers find us and that’s what I want my blog to do.
